Compassion & Self-Compassion
Finish this sentence: “When I face challenges in teaching, I will remind myself that...”
Creating Connection and Care in the Classroom
Compassion in teaching means recognizing students as individuals with unique lives and learning styles. It encourages educators to view the classroom experience from the students’ perspective, focusing on kindness, generosity, and care. This perspective builds meaningful connections with students, enhancing learning experiences and improving course outcomes.
Ways to Practice Compassion in Teaching
- Consider Student Perspectives: Think about how students perceive and experience your course, including interactions with you and peers.
- Acknowledge Diverse Backgrounds: Understand that students bring different experiences, values, and viewpoints to the classroom.
- Balance Content with Connection: Prioritize covering material while also creating opportunities for engaging and inclusive learning moments.
- Check-In Regularly: Create opportunities to ask how students are doing—personally and academically—and offer support as needed.
- Offer Flexibility When Possible: Adjust deadlines or provide alternative options when students face unexpected challenges.
- Recognize Effort and Growth: Highlight student progress, not just final outcomes, to foster motivation and confidence.
What is Self-Compassion?
Self-compassion applies these principles inward, encouraging educators to treat themselves with kindness and understanding. Teaching often involves managing high expectations—both personal and external—and navigating challenges like classroom conflicts, setbacks, or feelings of inadequacy. Instead of dwelling on perceived failures, self-compassion allows for reflection, growth, and resilience.
Tips for Practicing Self-Compassion
- Treat Yourself as a Friend: Approach yourself with the same kindness and encouragement you would offer a trusted friend.
- Accept Imperfection: Recognize that no educator or class is perfect—challenges are opportunities to grow and refine your teaching practices.
- Reflect Constructively: Focus on learning and improvement rather than assigning blame when things don’t go as planned.
- Celebrate Successes: Acknowledge your accomplishments, no matter how small, to reinforce confidence and satisfaction.
- Set Boundaries: Prioritize self-care and establish boundaries to prevent burnout and maintain emotional balance.
- Seek Support: Reach out to colleagues, mentors, or campus resources for guidance and reassurance during difficult times.
Why Compassion Matters
For Students:
- Improves Learning Experiences: Compassionate teaching fosters trust and openness, enabling students to engage more fully.
- Builds Resilience: Supportive learning environments help students navigate stress and develop coping strategies.
- Promotes Inclusivity: Compassion reinforces equity and a sense of belonging in the classroom.
For Educators:
- Reduces Burnout: Practicing self-compassion can alleviate stress and promote emotional well-being.
- Enhances Teaching Effectiveness: Reflecting on teaching challenges with curiosity instead of criticism allows for growth and improvement.
- Strengthens Connections: Compassion creates a collaborative, respectful atmosphere where learning thrives.
Final Thought
By embracing compassion—for students and yourself—you create a positive, supportive environment that fosters growth, engagement, and resilience. Start small by checking in with students and offering yourself grace during challenges, and watch how your classroom and personal teaching experiences transform.
Further Reading:
Magnet, Shoshana, et al. "Feminism, Pedagogy, and the Politics of Kindness." Feminist Teacher, vol. 25 no. 1, 2015, p. 1-22.
Hess, Juliet. "Towards a (Self-)Compassionate Music Education: Affirmative Politics, Self-Compassion, and Anti-Oppression." Philosophy of Music Education Review, vol. 28 no.1, 2020, p. 47-68.